“Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed” (Proverbs 15:22)
I love to go on vacation, but I hate the packing that precedes it. It was the Thursday prior to our annual beach vacation. Scurrying from room to room, I realized so many items were only partially packed and there were so many items not packed at all! My son was arriving that night from graduate school in Tennessee (we live in Pennsylvania), my daughter and son-in-love were coming the next night from Virginia, and we were all attending our neighbor’s son’s wedding on Saturday, with plans to leave for the beach on Sunday morning.
I had also shopped to have food and snacks in our house, got clean towels out for everyone, made sure bedrooms were ready, and shopped for and wrapped two wedding gifts! Phew! I felt like I was running a bed and breakfast as well as preparing to go away to one! I began to lose track of what was packed and what was not and began to feel a little out of control.
My knight in shining armor (MKISA), my husband, came to the rescue with the official Vacation Packing List (VPL), a Word document with all the essentials we need to think about when we’re packing, divided into three categories: Home (turn back A/C, turn off dehumidifier, put out garbage, etc.), Car (check oil/tires/gas, get spare keys), General (cash/credit cards, cell phones/chargers, medications, reading materials, pillows). We just check them off as we have them packed.
MKISA also asked me what I needed to pack that could not be purchased or rented while on vacation. If we had those, we’d be golden! I told him that was my glasses, my contact lenses, and my medications. I felt so much better after packing these items and going down the VPL.
My husband tends to be very focused and he has a list for almost everything. Sometimes it drives me crazy! God has shown my husband, through 25 years of chronic illness, that being disciplined and writing things down was a key to the “abundant life” God has promised. God provided the wisdom of my husband to bring order and peace to our packing process. Without his counsel, I would not have succeeded.
So take a few minutes and type up a general packing list that can be used for almost anytime you have an opportunity to travel-your VPL. Then the next time you want to take your SWEET<3 (sweetheart) or BFF (best friend forever) away with you, think about my MKISA who supplied our VPL, MIH (make it happen), and HAGT (have a good time)! IOH (I’m outta here)!
Prayer: Lord, thank You for giving us the time and the provisions for rest and relaxation. Give us each the focus and concentration we need when preparing for a vacation and help us to relax and be at peace once there. Amen.
About the Author:
Jackie Confalone lives in Pennsylvania with her “groom” of 30 years, Gary. They have 2 grown children. She “lives” with three invisible illnesses, Ulcerative Colitis, Endometriosis, and Late Stage Lyme Disease, and each of her family members has at least one chronic illness. She feels blessed that God has used her experiences to help others with chronic illnesses. She has started posting some writings at http://jackieconfalone.wordpress.com/.
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What plans can you put in place to prevent feeling overwhelmed or anxious the next time you pack for vacation or travel?
That was so awesome, Jackie! I know who your MKISA is! I feel so privileged! Haha, keep doing what you’re doing! This is an awesome ministry I never knew you had! God bless, sis!
This is a really practical suggestion. And you are blessed to have “MKISA” to give you counsel. Even if his organisational abilities do sometimes drive you crazy, God has provided him to help you, and v.v.
How foolish we are when we try to “do it all” ourselves. Especially when there are usually people within shouting distance who would be thrilled to be aksed to do something to ease our burdens.
I hope the vacation you mention was (or will be) a wonderful one. It should be good therapy for folks with chronic illnesses. Just to leave all the familiar, everyday duties and home behind and have a complte change.
I hope this makes sense. I’m almost asleep as I type.
Thank you.
Beth