By Leslie Vernick "Stop being angry! Turn from your rage! Do not lose your temper- it only leads to harm." (Psalm 37:8) Anger is a normal part of being a human being but it can be a dangerous emotion and has the potential to wreck our relationships and our lives. Here are the four most common lies about anger. 1. When I feel angry, I must let it all out. Too much damage has been done to people we love by blurting out angry feelings in the moment of their greatest intensity. Doing this might provide some sort of relief but it is never beneficial to the hearer or the relationship. I liken it to vomiting. You do feel better getting it out, but vomit belongs in the toilet, not on another person. Proverbs 12:18 says, "Reckless words pierce … [Read more...]
