Romantic Ideas for A Chronically Ill Woman to Romance Her Husband

ROMANTIC IDEAS FOR A CHRONICALLY ILL WOMEN TO ROMANCE HER HUSBAND - when "hot and bothered" has a whole new meaning of hot flashes and annoyance you know it's time to start adding a bit of romance into your life--even if you DON'T feel like it -- you will be glad you did. #chronic illness #romance

This article is for the ladies and here is one for the men if you have an ill wife "Hot and bothered!" For most people these words create images of being twisted up in sheets, breathlessly reaching out to the one you love. For those with chronic illness, however, "hot" is more likely to refer to one's thyroid condition, night sweats, or a heating pad on high. "Bothered. . ." Well, let's just say when your body aches, everything makes you feel bothered: a cat that won't move off your leg, a joint that continues to throb, and a husband that is able to snore through minor earthquakes. It can be hard to be romantic! You may be surprised to know that nearly 1 in 2 people live with a chronic illness in the U.S.A. That means a whole lot of … [Read more...]

God Wants to Take Our Griefs In His Hands

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Grief is such an easy thing to hang onto, but what happens when we truly place it in His hands? "But You, God, see the trouble of the afflicted; You consider their grief and take it in hand." (Psalm 10:14) Each day we wake up we have a choice to place it all in His hands. I have recently decided to try to start tapering down the prednisone again while I have the benefits of another medication in my system. I have been stuck at 10 mg for over a year, and my goal is to get to 5 some day. So yesterday I took 9 mg. Today, I took 10, but tomorrow, I will be back at 9, until by the end of the week I can hopefully claim that slot of 9 mg. Other than the fatigue of losing about half my energy, my hands hurt. They hurt badly. They ache and … [Read more...]

Just As Long as You Stand By Me – Video

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Happy Sunday! It is so easy to get caught up in our own little world, even the news about the city we live in or our country, and forget that we are all God's children, scattered all over the world. We all hurt, we all need the Lord, and. . . we need each other too. This is a beautiful video that will remind you that there are people world-wide that are saying, "Just as long as you stand by me than I can _____." (Imagine, what could you do if someone promised to stand by you?) Be sure to listen past the 1-minute mark for more surprises. If you are receiving this in your email, you likely cannot see the video within the email. Click the title above to go to our website to watch it. Stand By Me - People of the World Playing for … [Read more...]

What a Difference Love Can Make – Video

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If you are one who loves animals, you may need to grab a tissue to watch this video. This doggie, found abandoned and blind in both eyes, gets a new chance for life and love because of some people who care. What a difference we can make in the lives of someone who needs a second chance, both animals--an humans--alike. If you are receiving this in your email, you likely cannot see the video within the email. Click the title above to go to our website to watch it. Blind Dog Living in a Trash Pile Gets the Most Beautiful Rescue - The End is Amazing from iluvanimals on GodTube. … [Read more...]

Moving Video Reminds Us Of What Tomorrow Is All About

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As we celebrate Memorial Day here in the USA tomorrow, let us not forget why we celebrate it. It is not about "a day off work" or hotdogs on the grill. It is about the sacrifice that many people have made with their lives. Respectfully, we say "Thank you. . . " … [Read more...]

God LOVES You – Free Printable to Share

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The song says, "All we need is love. . ." but what happens when we look around our life and we just don't feel loved? You may feel forgotten, invisible, dismissed, or even a low priority in the lives of those who you love. If Valentine's Day leaves a bitter taste in your mouth take a moment to print out this scripture, Jeremiah 31:3, ""I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving-kindness." Stick it in a pretty frame or just post it on your refrigerator. This week when everyone seems to be talking about roses and valentines and chocolates. . . remember that all of those things are temporary. In fact, none of them will last longer than a week or two. But the love from God is eternal. He has drawn YOU, and with … [Read more...]

Carrying Super Rachel – The Logistics of When Your Wife Is Chronically Ill

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By Matt Horne Caring for a chronically ill wife is not what I had envisioned when I was working up the nerve to ask out "that hot girl" who would later become my wife. We were in college and she was on the cross country team. She let me know very early on in the relationship that she had a chronic illness. Nowadays, it's just part of life. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't know what to do with myself if she were well. There's a reason I call her "Super Rachel." On her good days, she can run circles around me--cleaning, getting things checked off her to-do list, and having tons of fun. She's amazing. On top of that, she has the greatest attitude and rarely lets her condition get her down. As her dad says, she's an "overcomer." Instead … [Read more...]

How Do I Know God Loves Me If I Am Suffering So Much?

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How do I know God loves me when I keep suffering and the pain never seems to stop? "For great is Your love, higher than the heavens; Your faithfulness reaches to the skies." Psalm 108:4 Last year my son and I were cuddled up on the bed having one of those rare quiet moments where he just wanted personal attention and was holding still long enough for me to talk with him. I told him, "Do you know how much Mommy loves you?" "How much?" he asked. "I love you as high as the sky and as deep as the ocean" I told him. "I love you. . ." he started to say, trying to think of something to compare it with. ". . .as deep as the toilet!" [Ah. . .  thanks. . . I think!] Well, maybe he was trying to think of a body of water like I had … [Read more...]

Ministering to Those Who Have Lost Someone They Love

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By Fran Caffey Sandin “Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep” (Romans 12: 15 NASB) Rejoicing comes easily when something good happens in the lives of friends. But when death and its sorrow invade a home, we often find ourselves struggling for an adequate response. We sincerely want to help, but deep inside we’re afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing, not being “strong” enough, or of becoming depressed. Who among us ever feels sufficient when death intrudes? And yet, that is when we’re needed most of all. The good news is that, in spite of our human weaknesses and fears, God can use us to uplift and encourage the bereaved. When the Holy Spirit dwells within our hearts, He will be our guide, … [Read more...]

My Valentine’s Day Gift… of Pain?

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By Dana Kennedy In a holy whisper, compassionate eyes searching my soul, He hands me a gift. “I love you, my child. As the cross is a symbol of my love, so is this gift. It’s not what you desire, but it will bring you more than you ever asked or imagined. Remember, all my gifts are good.” Tears course off His face as He leans down to kiss my forehead. As I carefully open the gift avoiding the thorns twisted into a bow, the blood red paper drops to the ground. I lift off the lid and peer into the tiny box. Before my mind can comprehend that it is empty, I am brought to my knees. Pain, fatigue, and weakness crash through my body pulling me under. Instantaneously, I am stricken with illness. “Oh, God! What have you given … [Read more...]

Remembering Each Person We Run Into is an Opportunity for Us to Encourage and Be Encouraged

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Every year as Thanksgiving approaches we start to receive some of these “cute” stories in our email box. . . but some so resonate with us that we want to pass them along and not save them for ourselves. I hope this is one that touches you. Thanks to Roy Weaver for sharing it with us here at Rest Ministries. An Anonymous Story called “Daniel’s Gloves” I sat, with two friends, in the picture window of a quaint restaurant just off the corner of the town-square. The food and the company were both especially good that day. As we talked, my attention was drawn outside, across the street. There, walking into town was a man who appeared to be carrying all his worldly goods on his back. He was carrying, a well-worn sign that read, … [Read more...]

Nurse Comforts Patients with Original Songs

If you have spent time in the hospital you know just how quickly the thrill of being in charge of the remote control can dry up. If family members or friends visit, you feel torn between the feelings of gratefulness that someone cares, & yet being exhausted by a simple conversation. Nurses, however, can hold so much influence however, in how our hospital stay really feels. When I was stuck in the hospital for 8 days with the flesh eating bacteria I didn't have a whole lot of visitors. (Can't imagine why, huh?) It was a nurse on her Sunday shift who sat & talked to me about her kids, the Fireproof movie, & other day to day stuff that made a couple hours quickly pass. Even nicer, when another nurse arrived for the next shift she said the … [Read more...]