Know Any Ill Parents? Submit Your Blog To Our Link Party!

ARE YOU A MOM (or Dad) WITH ILLNESS? Be sure to link up your blog here on parenting when chronically ill so others can find you and benefit from all that wisdom you are gaining (one day at a time!)

We are collecting blogs of ill parents! We would love to know more about your blog or article that addresses parenting when you are in pain. To submit your own link, put the code to our "Link Party button" (opens in a new window) on your own site. Then click the little blue button below that says "add your link" to submit your link! … [Read more...]

The Art of Balancing Motherhood and Chronic Illness

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Motherhood and chronic illness. If these two words relate to your life, chances are they are enough to keep you busy indefinitely. They can easily become a large part of your identity, and they both fight for control over your energy, time, and some days, your sanity. I have been working on a book about living with a chronic illness and being a mom for a few years now. It's about 70 percent done, but something keeps getting in the way of finishing it. You know what kinds of things: motherhood and childhood. And the more I learn, the more I realize I don't know. As I work on a chapter about the latest lessons I've discovered, my house tends to erupt in chaos and I feel tested again. Was it God trying to stretch me so the book would … [Read more...]

Not the Brady Bunch – How to Live With a Bipolar Mom

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By Libby East When I was little my family would watch reruns of the Brady Bunch & I would think "gee I wish I could have a family like that". It was so nice to think that a family's biggest problems could be whether Marsha gets class president or Jan gets to be a pom pom girl or if Cindy will find her favorite doll. And the best part about all of these problems was that they could all be solved in a thirty minute episode. Even though they were a blended family they seemed perfect in my eyes. You see my family was far from perfect. My mom is Bipolar -- Manic Depressive. I have sisters who are twins & they are five years older than me. Where did bipolar come from? I don't know. They say that they remember her being normal & … [Read more...]

I’m a Chronically Ill Mom w/ Son w/ Autism

I am a mom of a 2-year-old who was just diagnosed with autism. I also have had fibromyalgia for 5 years. I don't know how I am going to get through this. I had assumed that, with husb&'s help, I could be a pretty good mom despite my illness. But now with all of the extra attention he is going to need, as well as therapy, doctor's appointments, & even the possibility of needing a caregiver the rest of his life, I feel completely overwhelmed & even a bit betrayed by the Lord. Where do I start to work my way through these emotions? -Name Withheld Wow, your family has a lot to h&le right now. First, you should know that the feeling of being overwhelmed is normal. The fact that you recognize & want to address those emotions shows that you … [Read more...]

Share Your Stories for Lisa’s Christian Mom w/ Illness Book

Are you a Christian mom with a chronic illness who has kids under 10... or just remembers having kids under 10? If so, you may want to consider adding your input to my new book for chronically ill Chistian moms! If you sign up for this "group" Christian Moms with Illness Book Team you will only be notified of what I am looking for for the book: example, anecdotes, advice, your stories, etc. Your replies will not be public, & this is not a group where you will send emails to other members. It's just a "tool" to be able to reach you & I will let you know if your suggestions make it into the book! I am also looking for moms who also have the illness but may be the caregiver for someone else, moms with illness who have ill kids, … [Read more...]